Well it is almost 2018. Have you reevaluated what you have done with 2017? Have you been able to accomplish what you wanted to accomplish this year? As I age I realize more and more how fast time flies by, and how little time there is in this incarnation to be who ever it is we are meant to be. Your life is being created as you read this. Every action, or sometimes inaction, is fodder for your eulogy. Your memorial. Maybe it is time to take steps to create that you that wanted to come forth in your teens but you never had the chance or never took the reigns to make it happen. You only have now and you only have yourself to blame if you don’t do the work.